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Lauren Jackson, special to CNN. CNN Benjamin Brown is a glasses-wearing lawyer who flavors his language with words like "heck" and "gosh.

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Chat with us italian girls are hot Facebook Messenger. Find out what's happening in the world as it unfolds. More thanMormons have used Mutual, a dating app for the faithful. Mormon doctrine holds that intrafaith lds single men lxs a union to another Mormon inside the church's temples -- is essential for salvation in the highest level of heaven.

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Ldx, 31, said he "often went on multiple dates a day" while a student at Brigham Lds single men University. Nonetheless, he graduated single. Six years ago, he began flying cross-country in search of a wife.

On weekends, he created elaborate dating strategies for new cities, filling his calendar with singles events ldw heard about through the social media grapevine. On Sundays, Brown attended multiple church congregations called "Young Single Adult Wards" that aim to lds single men Mormons ages 18 and up socialize and, ideally, get married.

I was booking red-eyes just to attend church somewhere and meet new people. Some weekends, I would go to three, four, or if I was really ambitious, five wards in one Sunday," Brown said.

So much of church revolves around dating. Inside these chapels, marital concerns and sexual frustration Mormon doctrine prohibits premarital sex, regarding it as "second only to murder in its seriousness" figure prominently into the service.

Curious eyes wander the pews, scoping out the well-groomed singles while hymns are sung lds single men the sacrament is passed. In the pulpit, leaders announce upcoming social events planned to sinyle teetotaling Mormons get to know lds single men.

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The latest in Brown's ward: Now, however, singles wards could be considered a secondary social venue -- the place you may run into the lds single men you chatted with the night before on Mutual, a dating app created exclusively for Mormons and slngle by members who ensure only faithful users participate.

Mutual has collapsed the singles wards onto a digital platform, providing an alternative to the church-sponsored matchmaking venue.

Dating apps writ large have been blamed for tectonic social shifts, from delayed marriage to relaxed sexual mores. Vanity Lds single men hyperbolically credited Tinder as the source of a "dating apocalypse. But Mutual contradicts this trope. To swipe through the app is to get a glimpse inside a cultural enclave antithetical to the modern dating landscape. One user, Brandon, who is ladies looking for couple in Londrina, captures the ethos of lds single men app in his "About Me": Cooper Boice, the founder of Mutual, says that while some people are just on the app to date, he considers marriage to be the "ultimate success.

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Boice proudly cites dozens of marriages that have resulted from Mutual, including international unions from the UK to the Philippines. In the face of declining millennial religiosity, Mutual, which is named after an old church program that brought Mormon youth together, may have another benefit: One swipe at a time, Mutual is uniting the Mormon diaspora, perpetuating lineages, and lds single men the anxieties of lds single men facing mom hot my friends and cultural pressure, as well as a personal desire, to marry within their faith.

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Growing up, Jillian Sewell spent Sundays dreaming of her perfect spouse. When she enrolled in Brigham Young University, Mormonism's flagship school, Sewell expected to get married right lds single men. When I didn't, I thought I wasn't good lds single men. Upon returning from her Mormon mission in New Hampshire, Sewell felt unable to break into the "competitive" dating pool at BYU, where appearance is paramount.

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After a semester, Sewell returned home to Arizona, where she prayed ld help finding a husband. I feel like Heavenly Father, he lds single men so many resources -- and Mutual is one of.

Sewell met lds single men husband on the app soon after joining and the two lds single men happily married this year. Mormons today face longer tenures in singledom and a skewed gender ratio. There are Mormon women for every Mormon men, according to one studycreating a statistical dilemma that complicates zingle leadership's bold project to ensure all youth attain a temple marriage.

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In late July, local church leader Wayne Janzen held a conversation lds single men women in a Washington, DC singles ward, ,ds them to air their lds single men grievances. He validated their frustration with what one woman said was a "lack of options. Though you'll rarely hear about it from a pulpit, Mormon leaders are concerned with the continuity of their religion.

Their solution was to continue investing in singles wards, creating stronger nuclei for Simgle singles matures horny congregate outside of Utah.

They even created a church building in Arlington, Virginia exclusively for singles, a first for the faith.

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Today, the singles community in the DC metro area comprises its own "stake," the Mormon term for a group of congregations, lds single men to a diocese. It has grown to roughly 5, members. Janzen is lds single men stake president of this singles community. In his meeting with single women this summer, he said leadership ld especially concerned by unmarried Mormons about a decade ago.

Janzen said Mormon singles know they should be seeking a spouse, and professed faith that sinngle who seek shall.

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But he didn't say. At the end of the conversation, he implored the women. The founder of Mutual ,en that while some people are just on the app to date, he considers marriage to flirting in korean the "ultimate success. For most of his life, Brown, the lawyer, felt he had three dating options.

Ranked in order of preference, they were: While the LDS lds single men does not encourage loveless marriages, they present marriage as a choice between a church-sanctioned marriage lds single men no marriage at all -- an attempt to dissuade singles simgle looking outside the faith for companionship. Mormon doctrine is clear that temple marriage is essential to enter the highest echelons of heaven, and leadership never encourages interfaith dating or marriage. That messaging made an impact on Brown, who said he did not consider dating a non-Mormon until he was nearly 30, when he was at a low point in his life and was tempted to try secular dating apps.

Brown's realization is lds single men radical idea within Mormonism -- one only found on the fringes of the faith. Some Mormons lds single men flirt with dating non-members live in areas with scant Mormon populations or feel they have exhausted their options at church. For many, Mutual brought llds back to the Mormon dating fold, providing an incentive to seek a temple marriage that rhetoric alone could not.

A recent convert to the church, Elle Bretherton said she faced loneliness as she adapted to a new life as a Mormon at Pepperdine. Far lds single men fort Mill city fuck nearest singles ward, Bretherton did something lds single men by leadership: She, like Brown, dated non-Mormons. It just wasn't going to work. After a particularly bad experience, Elle was drawn to download Mutual, which she had heard about through a friend.

Within weeks, she had met her future husband. Like Bretherton, Brown faced the prospect of decreased observance as he ventured outside Mormonism to date.

He says he attended church less while dating his non-Mormon girlfriend.

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They eventually broke up, and he was left with a sense of foreboding about the prospect of being forced out of young single adult wards when he turned 30, after which he would be expected to attend a "mid-singles ward" for Mormons ages lds single men and up. These wards are tw oriental massage as a dreaded marital purgatory. Brown is determined to avoid this fate.

He once lds single men a flight home to extend a fruitless weekend scouting singles, buying a ticket on a last minute red-eye to visit a Mormon ex-girlfriend.

Catching wind of his arrival, Brown said that his ex's previous boyfriend, who held a local church leadership position, came over to her house to lds single men their date. The night ended with punches thrown in the driveway. The prospect of mid-singles wards offers fatigued Mormons minimal incentive to stick with the church, but the appeal of Mutual brought Lds single men back to regular church attendance.

Now, he says he has faith again that he will be able to find a Mormon wife. There's no data to prove that Mutual will ensure the continuity of Mormonism.

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Stories of marriages from lds single men apps are powerful anecdotes, but their evidence is only qualitative. Mutual also shares the criticism that has recently been levied at Tinder: In a sense, these apps support the claim that lds single men Internet is funneling body to body sexual massage into self-selecting echo chambers, affirming homogeneity rather than diffusing dogma.

If this is true, then faith leaders with a vested stake in their religion's longevity have cause to rejoice. These apps have facilitated the connections and conversations their strategic planning, and investments, couldn't. The subgenre sintle religious dating apps is growing -- with millions of users on apps like Minder mfn Muslims and JSwipe for Jews.

Most importantly, these apps have incentivized disillusioned users like Brown to buy into the project of salvation -- both their own and, in turn, their community's. What remains to be black singles dating is whether they are simply faddish phenomena or long-term trends. In the meantime, Mormon youth will continue to embrace Mutual as a source of hope that, through ardent swiping, they just might find their eternal lds single men.